Does this sound like you? - Cape Town

Thursday, 23 January 2025
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City: Cape Town, Western Cape

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I read this and realised I am on this site out of emptiness and low self esteem.

We engage in risky or casual sexual behaviour to feel desired, but this behaviour doesn't lead to long-term emotional satisfaction.

We seek external validation to momentarily boost our self-worth, but this validation rarely lasts. We get a kick from the validation of new people wanting us, but it's fleeting. We're not repairing our sense of self. We're chasing something that only we can give ourselves: a feeling of security and self-worth that isn't dependent on someone else's desire for us.